Decenter Him. Reclaim Your Inner Authority.

This is not about understanding him better. It’s about interrupting the mental, emotional, and behavioral loops that keep him centered — even after you’ve left.

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Stop Researching Him.

You can be no contact and still mentally rehearsing conversations.

You can know he was manipulative and still feel organized around him.

You can understand the psychology — and still be orbiting him.

Decentering him isn’t about more awareness. It’s about reclaiming your authority.

Inside the Decenter Guide, you’ll learn:

  • Why thinking about him keeps you emotionally tethered — even after no contact
  • The difference between awareness and authority (and where most women stall)
  • What “creating safety” really means for your nervous system
  • How to interrupt rumination and retrain your mind
  • How to restore your feeling intelligence so you stop overriding red flags
  • The behavioral shift that prevents reenacting the pattern

I’m Monica Yearwood. I help high-achieving women who have left toxic relationships but still feel emotionally tethered restore their inner authority and fully reclaim their lives.

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