From Relationship Coach Monica Yearwood
Are you wondering where to begin your journey to heal from a toxic relationship?
Break free from patterns that no longer serve you with tangible first steps to move forward.
Both in my coaching program and in my interactions on social media…
I talk to women and men who are trying to decide whether they should leave or stay in a toxic relationship every day…
Or they're afraid to date because they don't trust themselves anymore.
They wonder how could this happen to me and how can I prevent it from happening again?
They want my opinion on their relationship, but I know my opinion will do nothing more than provide temporary validation or something to think about.
You're the only one who can make the decision to restore your self-trust and heal.
You need the tools, skills, and practices to restore your self-trust so that you can trust what you see and believe that how you feel is enough.
I’m glad you’re here today.
Here’s why:
The worst injury of relationship betrayal is fractured self-trust.
The reason you're researching narcissism, attachment issues, emotional unavailability, and ‘what’s wrong with them,’ is because you want validation.
But if you got that validation why are you reading this?
Has any of that information done anything to change your life?
What you really want more than information is to trust yourself, and that doesn't come from a social media post, a book, or from me.
It comes from within you.
What you need more than information are practices that can connect you to yourself and restore your confidence.
Maybe you have a history of toxic or failed relationships and you want to break the pattern.
Maybe you’ve recently ended a toxic relationship and you’re struggling to maintain no contact because you doubt your decision.
Maybe you’re in agony and can’t stop thinking about the relationship, wondering how you got in the relationship and why you stayed.
Maybe you saw red flags from the beginning, but chose to move forward into the relationship anyway.
Maybe you were blind-sighted, duped, and victimized by an emotional predator who studied, mirrored, and exploited you.
Whatever the case may be…
Experiencing a toxic relationship is disorienting. It can break your self-trust, and lead you to second guess yourself in almost every way.
To make matters worse...
When The Emotional Wounds Of Relationship Trauma Is Not Healed We Accept The Turmoil In Our Lives.
Lowered self-esteem attracts inadequate partners...
Guilt causes us to over-function in relationships...
Hypervigilance keeps healthy partners out of our reach...
Fear of intimacy drives hyper-independence...
Abandonment wounds keep us reaching for partners who reject us...
Our unaddressed emotional wounds can spread out into other areas of life outside of our romantic interests too. Increasing anxiety or depression, narrowing our vision and blocking our ability to address our issues in a healthy or balanced way.
In many cases the unhealed relationship traumas of our past make it difficult to identify healthy partnerships…and orient us to relationship dysfunction or avoidance.
This feeling of confusion in toxic relationships can be heightened by childhood trauma and neglect…
Or by a significant betrayal in a relationship that we experienced as an adult.
Sometimes even when there is nothing terrible you can point to about your childhood…
You can still see a pattern of dysfunctional or failed relationships in your life.
If you can relate to any of the above...
If you want to identify dangerous partners…
Respond to red flags…
Uncover the true reasons you stayed in a relationship with them…
Finally, get some answers…
I have some good news:
I recently created Heal From Dangerous Partners & The Reasons You Got Into Relationship With One workshop.
Here’s why:
Toxic Relationships Damage All Areas Of Your Life And Most Recovery Approaches Want To Keep You In Blame
This requires hours and hours of researching ‘what’s wrong with them,’ but does little to empower you to choose differently or protect you from being retargeted in the future.
Maybe you have a history of toxic or failed relationships and you want to break the pattern.
Maybe you’ve recently ended a toxic relationship and you’re struggling to maintain no contact.
Maybe you’re in agony and can’t stop thinking about the relationship, wondering how you got in the relationship and why you stayed.
Maybe you saw red flags from the beginning, but chose to move forward into the relationship anyway.
Maybe you were blind-sighted, duped, and victimized by an emotional predator who studied, mirrored, and exploited you.
Whatever the case may be…
Experiencing a toxic relationship is disorienting. It can break your self-trust, and lead you to second guess yourself in almost every way.
To make matters worse...
When The Emotional Wounds Of Relationship Trauma Is Not Healed We Can Be More Receptive To Another Toxic Relationship.
Lowered self-esteem attracts inadequate partners...
Guilt causes us to over-function in relationships...
Hypervigilance keeps healthy partners out of our reach...
Fear of intimacy drives hyper-independence...
Abandonment wounds keep us reaching for partners who reject us...
Our unaddressed emotional wounds can spread out into other areas of life outside of our romantic interests too. Increasing anxiety or depression, narrowing our vision and blocking our ability to address our issues in a healthy or balanced way.
In many cases the unhealed relationship traumas of our past make it difficult to identify healthy partnerships…and orient us to relationship dysfunction or avoidance.
This feeling of confusion in toxic relationships can be heightened by childhood trauma and neglect…
Or by a significant betrayal in a relationship that we experienced as an adult.
Sometimes even when there is nothing terrible you can point to about your childhood…
You can still see a pattern of dysfunctional or failed relationships in your life.
If you can relate to any of the above...
If you want to identify dangerous partners…
Respond to red flags…
Uncover the true reasons you stayed in a relationship with them…
Finally, get some answers…
I have some good news:
I recently created Heal From Dangerous Partners & The Reasons You Got Into Relationship With One workshop.
This is a 4-week program that you can do at your own pace designed to give you life-changing tools and strategies that you can start using right away.
So that you can finally answer, ‘Why did I get into the relationship and why did I stay?’
And reclaim your self-trust when dating, and belief that a healthier love is for you.
You will know the ways you were targeted, and uncover the ways you co-created your toxic relationship so that you can choose healthy love when you're ready.
This Workshop Is Designed To Empower You To:
- Identify the red flags of 7-types of dangerous partners and uncover what they find attractive about you.
- Take an in-depth research-inspired assessment and discover what caused you to be toxic relationship prone and receive direction on how to resolve it.
- Learn techniques to process the emotional devastation of toxic relationships and understand why going ‘no contact,’ is not enough to prevent recurrence and healing.
- Better distinguish between unhealthy and healthy relationships, and identify your needs and boundaries in a relationship so that you can find mutual love and be toxic relationship proof.
- Access and redirect the subtle long-lasting impact of toxic relationship trauma. In cases where the deep trauma isn’t from what happened, but instead what didn’t happen, it can be tricky to untangle its effects on your beliefs and behaviors.
- Learn how to gain control of your mind again. Stop overthinking and obsessing and focus on other important areas in your life.
- Enhance your physical strength. Toxic relationships impact physical health. Learn key dietary and herbal practices to boost energy, immunity, resilience and help to reverse the impact of chronic stress.
Even if you’ve been out of a toxic relationship, but still are ruminating about it years later and struggle to let go of what happened to you…
This workshop is for you...
My style is educational, practical, and accessible…and emphasizes action to create change.
This is information everyone should have to make better relationship choices, and not waste years in destructive relationships.
You’ll walk away with practical tools you can start using today that make your journey toward healthy love more accessible.
However, before we go on let me make something clear…
I do not know the details of your situation.
This workshop is not the same thing as my 3-month coaching program for toxic relationship recovery…
(Nor is it intended to replace your work with a therapist)
It is simply meant to provide you with the context you need to identify why you got into the relationship and why you stayed in a more empowering way.
So while not everything might be specific to your situation, this workshop will give you research-inspired principles and strategies that I have taught to my students for over a decade that anyone who has been in a toxic relationship can use.
In a minute, I’ll tell you about how you can get access, but first:
Here’s A Sample Of Topics Covered In The Workshop
- Proven insights and techniques that have the power to resolve the emotional devastation of toxic relationships. (I’ve seen it in my practice! Using these techniques can help you to make progress toward the romantic relationship you want).
- An in-depth assessment of 7 types of dangerous partners. Including red flags to look out for during early dating, while in the relationship, and when the relationship is ending.
- How to identify your toxic red flags. Yes, you have them too. Your toxic red flags make you easier to manipulate and more difficult for you to leave a relationship that is causing you harm.
- How to dial back when dating when you see a red flag so you can see who a person is and not who they want you to see before you get emotionally attached.
- A research-proven way to identify potential pathologies and warning signs in a prospective partner or people you’ve dated in the past.
- Emotional processing techniques which will help you identify and resolve repeating relationship patterns that cause you to harm.
- A real-life insight into the limits of staying in a toxic relationship and the sobering truth of its consequences.
- What to do if you are re-enacting a trauma from your past in your current relationships.
- How our unprocessed emotions shape the types of relationships we are drawn to.
- A clear dividing line by which to judge boundary violations and when no second chances should be given.
- How to shift the meaning of your experience so that you can move from victim to survivor and resolve the victim mentality that abusive partners love.
- Examples of how unprocessed emotional wounds attract relationships that cause more harm.
- What it means to be in a toxic relationship and how our society downplays poor relationship behaviors that indicate serious disorders.
- The single, all-important first step to recovering from a toxic relationship.
- The difficult, but necessary change in self-perspective can bring about breakthroughs leading to a healthy relationship.
- A simple practice to process your emotional wounds, and decrease anxiety, guilt, anger, and shame.
- How your childhood wounds could be manifesting in boundary violations in your adult relationships.
- What to do if you’re playing out painful patterns from your past in your current relationships.
- Why taking full responsibility for your healing is key to resolving the consequences of toxic relationships and preventing recurrence.
- The most common reason, men and women find themselves in multiple toxic relationships.
- The critical element is to restore your capability to identify red flags and prevent toxic relationships.
- The major flaw in relying on no contact and waiting to feel better instead of healing the roots of why you got into a toxic relationship and why you stayed.
- The fallacy of ‘victim mentality’…and how it can keep you stuck in researching narcissism, psychopathy, attachment issues, and borderline personality disorder for years without finding freedom or the real answers you need.
There’s just a small taste of the topics covered in the workshop.
You can expect a thorough discussion on how to heal and repair your self-worth, in a format that anyone can understand. Also, the strategies I reveal are straightforward to implement.
These are the same research-backed techniques and healing approaches that I use with my students in my 3-month coaching program for toxic relationship recovery. They represent my take on the prevailing models today (and as such, you won’t find this information available anywhere else).
Even if you just want some tools to help you get out of the pain and loss of your relationship and help you build confidence in setting boundaries…
You’re going to love the workshop.
Today, you can get instant access to this workshop for just $197
PLUS: You’ll get instant access to…
[Free Bonus]
Heal From Dangerous Partners & The Reasons You Got In Relationship With One Workbook
This hands-on guide contains simple assessments that will help you identify dangerous partners and your traits that make it hard to leave a relationship with one. You’ll discover in what areas you are most prone to toxic relationships and why.
It will also guide you through the practices, some of the tools, and techniques we’ll be discussing in the workshop, so that you can heal from the impact of a toxic relationship in your life.
A $39 Value, I’ll send it to you FREE with your order today.
To grab your copy of the workbook and get instant access to the “Healing From Dangerous Partners & And The Reasons You Got Into Relationship With One,” workshop, click the button below.
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All of this means you could be learning these techniques just minutes from now if you want.
You may be tempted to put this off…
Don’t!
If recovering from a toxic relationship is hurting, there is help for you.
With Gratitude,
Monica
P.S. Here are some of the questions most commonly asked about the workshop:
Common Questions
Why Do I Need A Workshop Like This?
How Can You Help Me Recover From My Toxic Relationship? Can’t I just Find This Stuff Out On My Own?
Do I need To Share Anything Personal?
Is This Like Therapy?
If I’m Already In Counseling, Will This Help Me?
What If I Want Coaching From Monica Not A Recorded Workshop?
Meet Monica Yearwood
Hi, I’m Monica. For over a decade, I ran and operated a holistic center in Chicago called Hamsa where I created customized retreats for men and women suffering from work and relationship burnout. I witnessed the intersection of mind, emotions, and body firsthand in my clients when their physical symptoms would greatly reduce, if not resolve, with emotional healing.
I am trained in alternative therapies and practices — specifically yogic psychology and ayurveda, herbalogy, somatic parts work therapy, meditation, and yoga.
Today, I offer comprehensive virtual programs that teach my students how to self-heal from toxic relationships. My job is to provide you with holistic tools, practices, and skills so that you can access what you already know within, but have not discovered.
What I offer my students is a culmination of my professional training, personal recovery from toxic relationships, and over a decade of experience helping men and women reclaim their mental, physical, and emotional health. I am an expert at helping people to feel better about themselves by shifting their narrative and giving them the tools to process and release their pain.
My methods and approach are uniquely my own. I hope it helps you recover in the same way it does my students.
“I turned to Monica after a traumatic event happened in my life. I was looking for relief from anxiety, depression, grief-- but also a new way forward. I truly walked away from this experience changed in the most positive ways possible and am looking at life through a new lens."
~ Alissa Kruegar
"I have worked with Monica for almost 5 years now. I have been to many different healers and practitioners of complementary medicine, as well as spiritual teachers over the years, and Monica is the one I keep coming back to. She is a unique combination of incredible depth of knowledge and expertise, intuition, compassion, and a gentle yet powerful healing presence. My work with her has had a profound impact on my life." Amy West, PsyD
The program turned out to be as powerful as I expected in many ways. Combining somatic work with spiritual and psychological work helped me see where I held these attachments in my body, and to release these holding patterns in the psyche and the body simultaneously. What I did not expect, however, was this gift of new understanding I also received. ~ Whitney Logan, Psyd
Find out how you got in your toxic relationship and why you stayed.
Heal From Dangerous Partners And The Reasons You Got Into A Relationship With One Workshop has what you need to achieve real results a short time possible. This tools in this program have helped me, and hundreds of men and women break free from toxic relationships.
As a lifetime member, you get access to 4- foundational modules complete with detailed videos and downloadable Workbooks. The modules are designed to empower you with knowledge and confidence so you can tune in to the messages your body is sending you. The modules and supplemental materials serve as a foundation for your self-help journey.
Here’s What’s in the Heal From Dangerous Partners And The Reasons You Got In Relationship With One.
- Module 1 Meet 7 Dangerous Partners: You will be guided through an assessment to identify their early red flags and what they find attractive in you. You will also identify your toxic traits. These are the parts of you that express dysfunctional love, self-sacrifice, suppress, feel guilty, fear abandonment and doubt. Often these toxic traits hide behind a veil of altruism, and though your intent is not to hurt anyone, they can be used to manipulate you. Bringing them into your awareness is essential. ($250)
- Module 2 Identify Unconscious Wounds That Attract You To Dangerous Partners : In this module you will learn skills to identify if you are playing out wounds from your past in your current relationships. You will also learn how to identify suppressed emotions and process them using 2 techniques. ($250)
- Module 3 Out of the head and into the body: In this module you will learn how to use the body to reduce rumination and obsessing. And, you will learn key dietary and herbal practices that can enhance your energy, immunity, and resilience so that you can break the addiction of your toxic relationship and get your mind back. ($250)
- Virtual program. 3 Modules, LIFETIME access, with videos and workbook. 5 videos (4 hours total running time). ($450)
- Student Community. Share your experience, homework, insights with other supportive students. ($357)
- Priority access to Monica's Coaching Program. When spots open you will be the first to know!
…and you not only get LIFETIME access to all of the materials, but you also get LIFETIME UPDATES to the program as we evolve.
If I were to teach you all of this, it would be $1,800 for a VIP private day.
But because I've been doing this for over 15-years I've figured out how to streamline this information into a succinct workshop so you won’t be paying anything near that.
BACKED BY A 14-Day Gurantee! If you do not experience any benefit from my program in the first 14-days I will happily refund you. BUT...on one condition. You have to show me that you tried — this means, watching all the modules in your program (which I can see) and emailing me your completed homework in your workbook. In other words, if you do the work and do not experience a benefit I will gladly give you a refund.
Total Value Of $1,797
ALL THE ABOVE FOR ONLY
$397
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